Why we asians fail ?

It is not wealth problem, neither contentment of heart nor broken infrastructure and not at all poverty. The biggest dilemma today that is eating us from our roots is — Back Stab Culture.

We do not back stab any one willingly at the beginning. In the beginning, it is spicy discussion, like Junk Food — tastes good on its first bite. And always, we lose track of time, while enjoying the spicy-ness, crookedness and hookedness of gossip. And every time we end up with, someone back stabbed.

Best thing is, in our culture, we think we Won. We damaged the reputation. We also spent some good time. We keep encouraging ourselves, "we lived a good day" for a brief moment of time on our dinner discussion. But — HELLO — you did something real bad.

What actually happened while you were backstabbing someone else?

You sunk your soul a little further down. You broke the intact part of your body — that gave depth to your smiles. You have hurt your own (any human’s) blue print.

You did not have fun discussion — while back bitting. You ruined your own time, health, money and growth meter, while stabbing some body else.

Later you might go for a jog, you might sweat on a treadmill, or you might go swimming — the damage done is still there. Hanging right on your chest. It will be haunting you in times to come. It has left some ugly marks on your Fulfilment meter. Unless, you go right in front of that person you have hit, you do no Fix the guilt you caused yourself.

Lesson —

Always talk up-front, bold, ugly and truthful. It will save you your guilt and it will actually grow your image.

Do not break your soul — while it is still intact

I published a video in order to market my last meetup. People in my circle, downloaded this video, labelled it bad names, and propagated me — as a beggar — asking for money.

I am happy. It gave them spice, and it gave me a Blog Idea. One good WIN for me.

I strongly suggest you, do not damage your soul. It is a temple. It is clean. It lives in serenity and silence. Keep it at it — the best work it does. Do not harm its peacefulness and do not hurt your growth.

Were we meant for this ? Laying on Ground ?

You were meant to be brave, act mature, love nature, learn living and win your negotiations. You were not meant to win mere arguments and some podiums. You were bigger than all the crazy, below the belt talks. You were born beautiful. Your mother loved you. You grew into a full human being. You made friends. You gave birth to kids. You enjoyed your life's run.

You had all the fun while living your life. I accept, you lost some battles, and you wanted to stop at some point. I also accept, your hustle is worst — I can't imagine.

But if you are from Asia, or India, or Pakistan, one thing you can do right now to actually contribute towards betterment of our nations; stop back stabbing people who trust you. Stop hurting people who want to grow their weird ideas with you. Stop putting barricades in people’s path who love you. Stop telling them they are wrong. And stop hammering them.

Conclusion

If you ask me, I love my life. It is a blog post. Some minutes before, it was a website idea. In the morning we had a sweet class session to learn to code. My life is good and happy, at its roots.

You can also live good and grow your richness of heart — by following your dreams. You follow your passion, brake the barrier and superficial definitions of Aim / Goal imposed on you by your elders. Honestly, you will be breaking some real big shackles holding you down. You will feel the freedom and the extent to which you really can take the flight. And you will feel the breeze of success in the moment.

Else, you will die like most. On a death bed, bad face, a worried heart and no more relations.