The best change is Sudden Change

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I am so living it, the perfect life. It is a blessing. If I am told to go back to dull mornings, continuous cigarettes, endless music and heavy work routines; my reply would be you wish. I have found this huge source of light that is keeping me run a productive day every day. Each task, talk and commitment is being met. The near to perfect balance between work, hobby and relationship is here. It gives me a sense, the next step I will pick, I will hit a gold mine. A mine of happiness and liveliness. Each moment is bringing with it, something I had been looking for all my life, abundance.

It all happened after I changed Suddenly. I told to my self; this is it. No more porn. No more music. No more lies. And no more fear. It was not a continuous process, just a momentous turn in my life.

The good thing is I am happy.

Identify Excuses

Before I tell you how you do it. Be happy. Let’s identify some excuses of bringing in the change.

Just do this 🔥

Take a blank white paper with no lines on it. Like the one below 👇. And start writing on it with bold black permanent board marker.

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1. List all things you will lose after you change.

2. List all those people who will stop you.

3. List your 3 biggest fears.

Hang this paper beside your study desk or a prominent place in your home.

The purpose is to look at it everyday. Calculate its impact on your life. And tame your fear of fighting them.

This list is your obstacle. Unless you beat this obstacle, you can not change.

Liberate Today

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What fun is a life that is continuously ending and fading. That gives some spikes of pleasure and dulls back down. That gets rich at the start of every month and brings you back to poverty soon. That you wish everyday could get better but is only letting you down.

Inside you is a giant that needs to be awakened. It is there in every one of us. None of us are more intelligent or more capable than others. We all are equal. Exactly equal. Some who do yoga or meditate and watch less TV polishes their focus. As they get disciplined we label them ‘more capable’. But, literally they are just another human being with better trained mind, thoughts and talks.

You, are a solution to all your problems. Only you are the solution to broken budget, cheaper car and unfulfilled life.

Liberate bro. Liberate right now. Fight right now. Beat yourself now. Break this barrier of fear and stand back on your feet. Let the criticism die its own death. Let people talk and hurt. Let them punch. Let the world attack. Let them derail. Be a wall that hardly shakes. Fall now. Not tomorrow or day after tomorrow, kill your fear now. Today. Right now. Because all it will do is free you.

Conclusion

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Printing big posters, reading motivational talk and seeing with eyes open are few of the things that makes us human. We all are looking for hope and ways to succeed. Mansions and cars are good things. Life in a bigger home is a good thing. Eating at an expensive place is a good thing. These things are made for you. The longer you delay bringing in the change, longer you will need to wait.

All good things come to all good people. One simple mathematical formula, this life is. Be good. Earn good. Smile good. Because happiness is just the byproduct of a life well lived.