Relax Guys
Relax Guys
Chonburi, Thailand by Prapoth Panchuea
My wife is free to roam around. She is free to talk to friends. She is free to visit Europe. She is free to live a life of fun.
I am free. I am equally proud of my wife. I am not what I am today, without her around me. She is a milestone / a mega momentum , in my life. I need her every second of my life around me.
Do not worry. Do not think too much. Do not burden yourself with somebody’s else’s worries. Do not live a life of prison. You are free. Like me and my wife, you too have all the freedom. Stop at worry some thoughts and Relax.
Let me guide you, to relax
1. Start your day from Yourself
2. End your day at Yourself
1 Start Your Day from Yourself
Chonburi, Thailand by Prapoth Panchuea
Get out of bed. Stretch. Take shower. Make tea. Sit and hear the chirps. Focus on the soft breeze. Soft clouds. Green trees. Water flowing. And your brain working. Focus on the importants of your day.
Write a plan to live a fun day. Not the office way. Not the colleagues way. Not the wife’s way. Not your mother’s way. Your own way.
Take a leave. Pick a camp. A camping stool. A portable table. And a fan. Put in the boot of your car. And drive to the Chenab river. Sit there. Pitch the tent. Look at the sky. Ponder over your own self. And feel the freedom.
Your all worries. They ignite and amplify when you stop at believing the freedom, you already have. When you put barriers of fear around you and you start breaking patch by patch. Particle by particle. When you start eroding, your worries begin here.
Honestly, we are free people. If you only believe, you will know there are no rules. There are no boundaries. There are no limits. You can either become Muhammad today. Or you can become Firown today. This world is open to you, that you explore it, love it and smile with it, today.
2 End your day at Yourself
Tibidabo, Barcelona, Spain by Biel Morro
You worry too much. Some times its kids. Some times its assignment. Sometimes its wife. Sometimes its husband. Sometimes its mother. So many shackles have crippled you down. So many burdens have made you forget the joy of your childhood.
It is the same world. Same clouds. Same brown mud. You stopped playing in the mud, not the nature’s fault. You stopped laughing, not the husband’s fault. You stopped painting, not the teacher’s fault. You stopped living, not anybody’s fault.
You were worried about them. You were thinking overly about them. You were finding ways to fix it for them. You need to take a break here.
End your day at your own thoughts. The way you can fix your broken car. The way you can take a trip to the North. The way you can decorate your studio. The way you can smile better tomorrow.
Conclusion
Ethiopia , Addis Abeba by Gift Habeshaw
I was worried yesterday. I was thinking, brand is not going good. I was thinking blogs are not going good. I was thinking people are not going good. I was thinking, I am not impacting anything.
All these thoughts are related to things that I can not control. I can not control a brain. I can not control the impact. I can not control the reward. Results are out of my hand. And I was worried about things that are out of my reach. Out of my scope. Out of my ways.
Please. Stop worrying. Stop thinking about your kids. Stop thinking about others. Stop worrying about others. You have to live one life. Live it like you mean it. Like it is the last day of your life. Like today, is the last day of real you walking naked, talking loud and dancing bold in front of this world.
Surah Bani Israel, 70 - 75