Polish your self confidence

Jawad Bhai ❤️

It starts with a blank mind. Nothing inside your head. No thoughts and no noise. All great things come to minds that are less crowded. That have lesser domestic issues and more love of something “new”. An empty mind is your friend. Clean it. Wash it. Make it sober and polite.

Let us make our minds and talks better today. It is not to promote these blogs. Not to make this website work. Not to get fame. And not to get rich. It is none of this pollution. It is only to build your mind that you stand in front of a crowd that looks at you with an awe. So that you make a difference in your circle. So that you build a better image of muslims. So that you make our Prophet proud of us. So that you make our Allah proud of us.

Building Self Confidence

Slide 4 - Jawad Bhai Presentation

It is more meaningful than I could comprehend at the event. It is everything difficult to do. And everything, you will find abnormal. You will not find much support walking this path. You will be pelted in Taif. You will be attacked in Kaaba. You will be isolated for years. You will be dejected, discredited and humiliated. Your walking this path will make corrupt hate you. It is not easy for anyone. Note it down. If you want to build your self-confidence, you need to be ready to face the wrath of your family, friends and community.

Take a photo of this slide. Take 100 days of rejection challenge with you (as mentioned in the slides). Hang it in front of you. Mark a cross after you do 1 thing you are afraid of, everyday. Commit publicly. Share on your personal facebook page. Call all those people who deject you, seeking settlement. Do 1 brave thing for next 100 days and fill up your challenge sheet.

It is not easy. It is not simple. It is not a game for feint hearted people. It is something only “brave” people can do. Only people with an “empty” mind can do.

What will you get ?

Slide 5

Self confidence lets you live your life according to your dream. Perfect, rich, bold, successful and attractive. It is a quality of leaders.

Leaders are brave people. They stand ahead of their armies. Face the blunt to their chests. They stand their ground. Their body posture decides the tilt of the battle. It is all a leaders’ act that gives a victory. Or a failure.

Self confidence is for all of us.

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Everyone of us has the right to grab it. Embrace it. We all have been struggling to find it the easy way. But let’s try the hard way. The way that takes a toll on your body. That doesn’t let you listen to songs, watch movies and smoke cigarettes. That asks you to build discipline. That asks you to sleep early and rise early. That asks you to say five prayers everyday with jamaat for next 30 days. That asks you to speak truth even if it takes away your life’s hard earned successes. Lets do it the hard way. The bold way. Lets do it like a man.

Conclusion

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I am sure Jawad Bhai did not say all these things on our meetup. But things he said are shown on his slides. He is a great leader who against all odds stood beside me to talk to few people who believe in us. These few people are very close to our hearts. We are here to support them in their struggles. We are going to lead each other to a bright future. We ourselves are going to fix broken roads, damaged hearts and pride filled brains. We will be standing strong and fighting strong.

Join us, if you want to build a brighter Pakistan. If you want to build a connected us. Join us. We need support. We need a pat. We need encouragement. We need love. Give us what we need. We are as human as all of you. Let us fix it for you. ❤️