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How to Act Abnormal and Win Arguments

When I am tired of convincing people with logic, I go without logic. It helps.

Joke by Matt Sings

Lengthy discussions almost never bears the fruit. Long walks never. Long essays and thicker books are never read cover to cover. Prolonged activities usually dull down and they do not deliver the message. Make it shorter. All of it.

Let’s get abnormal and weird

1. Fight without reason

2. Love without sincerity

1 Fight without reason

Riots by Devin Berko

I just had mine. I have a close friend who visited me this morning. We talked about yesterday’s article. He said, I have spread hatred. I said, no I have spread love. It went on and on and no end was in sight. And I resorted to fighting over my opinion. Loud and abnormal. I acted difficult.

You need to fight sometimes. Sometimes you have to talk louder. Sometimes you should be breaking a mug or throwing a glass. Sometimes you need to act impulsive. Sometimes, once in a month, or 3 months, you have to break something really close to your heart.

Inside your heart, there are feelings. These erode over time. These need to shook, be jolted and surfaced. Sometimes, the old dead feelings of love, harmony and unity never surface, and you need to take magnanimous steps to bring them back. You do not manage to love, unless you find some blood, some broken jaws and some torn apart clothes. You do not really go deep into your heart, and see what resides there, unless you tear apart your self-made beliefs.

After the fight, we talked cool, showed love, wished greetings, smiled and parted our ways. I, and my friend, are more closer than ever.

2 Love without sincerity

Rose by Jamie Street

This is not a normal thing to do. Totally agree with you. It is stupid, weird and illogical. You really can’t love without sincerity inside your heart.

You need to stop caring. You need to stop loving others, your wife or your mother. You need to stop doing it for others. Everyday, your sincerity is taking a toll on your healthy routine life. You need to love, show it, without sincerity inside your heart.

You will feel weirdly content inside your heart. Your wife will be finding more ways to near you than before. Your mother will be sugar coating you and you will feel it. Your friends will hug you and you will see it.

There are unfilled patches in our relationships. We do not see them because we have never halted in our lives to take a step back and think. We do not see these hidden scars until we ponder and observe. We need to halt right now. We need to look at it carefully. And we have to find ways to mend it. We can not do it if we neglect ourselves and overburden ourselves with others' worries.

Conclusion

Soar by Elijah Hiett

Forget what your elders have been telling you. Forget what you have learnt over past 20 years of boring schooling, dull lectures and rotten syllables.

Forget all of your history for one day. Go abnormal. Act weird today. Give up on people for today. Go selfish. Go stupid. Go aggressive to the cosier spaces. And go lovely to the uglier places.

You need a jolt, a flash, a lightning strike, to find the dulled down emotions inside you. You do not find these, until you visit the no-go areas of your mind and your heart.

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