Another day of success

This is me rewarding myself 😀

I am sitting in Gloria Jeans after a successful meetup event in Islamabad, thinking it is easier to break if we misperceive our life. Wrongly perceiving events takes us further down and it ruins our days. Life is good, but as soon as we label bad words with our experiences it becomes a miserable place to live.

Today we were successful due to 3 major reasons 👇

1. Focused Audience. Audience is always focused. But today we had lesser people and each person in our audience was thoroughly interacted and accounted for. We all discussed our problems to minute details and we found the motivation to rephrase our life. I am sure about mine. It gave me a bump to move faster.

2. Discussed honestly. This factor was missing in our previous meetups. Unlike last meetup we were crowded and did not find the time to speak our heart out. Some speakers managed to talk and some did not express themselves. It was a lot going on at stage and I was unable to match the pace of the event. Today, it was every one of us talking, participating and sharing our life stories.

3. Went over the deadline by 90 minutes. The event deadline was 1230 hrs. It was interesting enough to listen to each other. We managed to give a mix of demonstrations of fishing attacks to security vulnerabilities to using weaker passwords. It was alive even after the event was over. 🔥

Point

It was 7 people sitting in a hall having a capacity of 25 people. There was less noise, more serene, intense focus and directed effort towards a laid out agenda. Confidence was built. Assignments were shared. Quran was discussed. Preparation for Ramadan was reminded. It was not less people. It was more meaningful talk.

We break in our life, because we do not see the picture from all corners, shades and filters. Our picture of misery needs to be looked at again. It is misery from 1 angle. But there are more angles to reach a conclusion. Even if you have drawn conclusions, these are not final. These always have the room of improvement. Let others shape your conclusions. Let your ears listen to positivity. Let your welwishers work for you to shape your life.

Conclusion

I realised, we need less people with focused brain to bring a change. More people would only mean noise and meaning-less popularity. To ensure I bring the value to our Meetups, we will be trying to limit our audience to only people who will be willing to pay for the events.

We will be raising funds and talking in a cozy place to let our inner fears fade. We will do it together and we will filter the noise outside.

Our next meetup will be at the same pace and same feel on 4 April at an undisclosed location. It has to be fun. Let us make a dedicated effort to filter the noise out and bring people to living in harmony to their words and actions.